• In the meantime, place the Dynamic cup on the lower part on the side of the spine. Slowly move the cup up and down along the back. You can also use zig-zag and circular movements. Hopefully by now, you will notice how your partner is starting to relax. 
•  Replace the Static cups further out on the shoulders, let the cups sit for 1-3 min, and do the other side of the back with the Dynamic cup.  
• Place the Dynamic cup directly on the sacrum, attach the static cups on the outer side of each arm. Rub some more massage oil into your palms and gently massage your partner’s hands.

Whether you let that be the end of your session or if you are keen for some more presence and deeper connection with your partner, we suggest you do an eye gazing exercise. Here’s one method you can use.